The Mission Matters
1 week ago
The other day I was at the bar before 9am. No one was there yet, and I wasn’t too surprised. But I knew that they’d be there soon enough. I was right. By 10am the place was buzzing. People talking, laughing, having a good time, enjoying a beverage…cold or hot. Then the band started, and that pretty much set the atmosphere for the morning. A little later somebody got up and talked…real funny guy…a visitor from Arkansas. He made everybody laugh, and he was real smart and then he got serious and so did the rest of us. Then some of us stayed for lunch at the restaurant upstairs.
Me and my friends call this ‘church.’ We do it about once a week. And yes, we do it in a bar. A real bar with neon beer logos on the wall and a view of the Sun Harbor Marina on St. Andrews Bay that is just beautiful. The bar is called “Dock of the Bay” and it sits on…ummm…a dock…on a bay. Thus the name. And yes, there is a dynamite restaurant upstairs. Great food, great atmosphere. What a cool place to have church.
It was not really my dream to have church in a bar. It is a value for our church to avoid a permanent location as long as possible. See, we don’t think of the church as a building, but as a people. I know lots of other folks say they believe the same thing, but they mostly meet in church buildings. We meet in a bar. We’re not better than church-building churches. We’re just trying to live out our values.
Lots of people think it’s a cool idea to have church in a bar. Like us. We think it’s a great idea. There’s chairs, tables and walls. Room enough for everyone. We didn’t have to buy chairs, tables or walls. We can spend that money on other stuff.
We like to spend as much money as we can on helping others. We do this ministry called “Angel Food.” It helps get people cheap groceries. We also do this thing called “The Cars of Christmas” and it helps people get...well, cars. At Christmas. It’s cool to do things to help people and not have to worry about chairs and tables and walls. ‘Cause we meet in a bar.
People who think it’s a cool idea to have church in a bar usually say something about our church hanging out with people who Jesus would have hung out with. Like people who go to bars. They talk about how Jesus loves and accepts everyone, even those who go to bars. People are accepted in a bar. Our whole church goes to bars… one called ‘Dock of the Bay’ in particular. Anyway, we accept people the way they are the very best we can. And we love them because we love the Jesus who accepts them the way they are.
Some of our folks have been hurt in other churches so they don’t feel comfortable in a conventional church building. Some folks may have never been to church much but they’ve been to bars a lot, so they are more at home in a bar. I’ve been to a lot of bars and a lot of churches. I figure folks go to bars and churches for a lot the same reasons. Because they’re hurting, lonely, needing love and someone to talk to. Or maybe because they’re in the habit of going.
Whatever your reason for wanting to see church done in a different way, we welcome you at CrossBridge. Dock of the Bay Restaurant and Lounge, Sundays at 10am.
Today (Saturday, June 28th) we had Angel Food Distribution. Every month we take orders for people who want to buy cheap food. It’s a great deal and I guess it really helps a lot of people. The thing has grown incredibly…almost doubling every single month that we’ve done it so far. We started with around 30 boxes and this month we had 664. (Two more boxes and we would have certainly had to explain to someone that we’re NOT the antichrist.)
So these 664 boxes of food came in on a big truck from Georgia. People waited in line for hours to get their food just like they were waiting to get tickets for the next Rolling Stones concert. One family was there 2½ hours before time for delivery. Their wait was not significantly longer than most of the others. It was hot and humid and just about everybody had to stand for a couple hours to get their food. We had some cold drinks for them (thanks, Buffalo Rock) and we tried to make them laugh. And we tried to make them feel like someone cares for them. I told our volunteers that it was important to see people as people with feelings and needs and emotions and not just as another pair of hands holding another box of food as they move through the line. We wanted them to feel God’s presence as they picked up their food.
Still, I would have been ticked if I had to spend a chunk of my Saturday waiting in a food line. Got stuff to do, you know. But these people were happy. I didn’t experience any bad attitudes or rude people. I couldn’t believe it. Hundreds and hundreds of people standing in the heat for hours and no one’s complaining. What if you had to stand in line next to someone who talked too much or had an annoying laugh? No bad attitudes, no complaining. At least I didn’t hear it. Someone said that its positive proof that God is working through this food ministry. Maybe they’re right. I was there to serve others. But I was the one who got touched. An experience of God’s presence was being extended to me through the ones there to get food. Everything was upside-down.
We’re working on getting the process better streamlined to handle the volume of people coming through. But there seemed to be something very healthy and very healing about the waiting. Maybe its because it gave people a chance to slow down and not have to be busy for a little while. Maybe its because we need community so bad and people were able to connect with each other in the line.
I know that rest and community are things that I need desperately. I would never have thought to go looking for them in a food line.